Jess Taylor (she/her), UHI communications manager, is the former chair of Highland Pride, one of the founders of the Scottish LGBTI+ Rainbow Mark, Somewhere for Us Unicorn, and Proud Scotland ‘Community Ally’ finalist who lives in Inverness with her wife and pooch. Read on for her top tips on how to be an LGBTQ+ ally:
Welcome to my wee blog entry! It’s very strange to be writing it in the first person as usually we’re squirreling away behind the scenes publishing content for our students and staff. You’ll have no doubt guessed by now that I’m a big advocate for the LGBTQ+ community and this is my small way of supporting my own community during Pride Month. So, without further ado, here’s my top ten tips:
Be open to learn and educate yourself: Part of being supportive to LGBTQ+ family, friends, loved ones, students or colleagues means taking the time to learn about the experiences, challenges, and history of the LGBTQ+ community. Read books, articles, and watch documentaries or films that provide insights into LGBTQ+ issues. This will help you better understand their struggles and needs.
Listen and be empathetic: Create a safe space for LGBTQ+ people to share their stories and experiences. Listen attentively without judgement or interruption. Practice empathy and try to understand their perspectives and emotions.
Be an ally in your personal relationships: Support your LGBTQ+ friends, family members, or colleagues. Show them love, acceptance, and affirmation. Be there to listen, help, and advocate for their rights when needed.
Try not to assume: LGBTQ+ people don’t look a particular way and someone’s current or previous partner(s) doesn’t define their sexuality. Someone close to you could be looking for support – not making assumptions will give them the space they need to be their authentic self and open up to you in their own time.
Respect preferred pronouns and names: Try to use the correct pronouns and names that individuals prefer. Respect their gender identity and expression. If you’re unsure, politely ask for their preferred pronouns or use gender-neutral language. But please don’t worry if you make a mistake…most LGBTQ+ people will appreciate a wee apology and your good intentions.
Challenge your biases and prejudices: Reflect on any biases or prejudices you may hold, and actively work on challenging and unlearning them. Recognise that everyone deserves equal rights and respect, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity.
Speak up against discrimination: If you witness or hear about discrimination or hate speech directed at LGBTQ+ individuals, speak up against it. Use your voice to challenge prejudice and promote understanding. Advocate for fair treatment and equality.
Support LGBTQ+ organisations: Donate to or volunteer with LGBTQ+ organisations that work towards equality and advocacy. Offer your time, skills, or resources to support their initiatives and events.
Amplify LGBTQ+ voices: Use your platform or social media presence to amplify LGBTQ+ voices, stories, and achievements. Share informative content, highlight LGBTQ+ artists, activists, and organisations, and promote LGBTQ+ rights and issues.
Attend LGBTQ+ events and celebrations: Participate in Pride events, LGBTQ+ film festivals, conferences, or other events in your community. This shows your support and helps create a visible presence of allies.
Well I hope this has been an informative read and thank you for sticking to the end if you’ve made it here! By being an ally, you can inspire and encourage others to also support and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights. Your actions and words can have a positive ripple effect, creating a more inclusive society and a better place for us all to live, study and work. I also believe that allies can be some of the most effective and powerful voices of the LGBTQ+ movement.
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We have also put together a handy section with lots more information for LGBTQ+ students and staff on our website.
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